December 23
Finding Beauty
in Modesty
Scripture: Jude 1-25 (NIV)
Tess twirled in front of the mirror, a mischievous grin playing on her lips. The red dress, with its daringly low neckline and daringly short hemline, clung to her curves, showcasing her figure. Tonight was the night – a party at her friend's, a chance to let loose and have some fun.
Her mother, however, was less than impressed. "Tess," she said, her voice sharp, "I don't think that's appropriate attire."
Tess bristled. "Mom, come on! It's just a dress. Everyone will be dressed up."
"It's not just a dress, Tess," her mother countered, her voice rising. "Look at yourself! You're practically displaying your breasts to the world! It's cheap, tacky, and disrespectful."
Tess felt tears welling up in her eyes. "You're being ridiculous!" she retorted, her voice trembling. "It's just a dress! I look good in it!"
Her mother sighed, the anger draining from her face. "Tess, I understand you want to feel confident and beautiful. But true beauty comes from within, not from how much skin you show. You are a beautiful woman, and you don't need to rely on revealing clothes to get attention. You deserve to be respected for who you are, not for what you're wearing."
Tess felt a pang of guilt. Her mother's words, though harsh, resonated with her. Was she truly confident in herself, or was she seeking validation through her appearance? A verse sprang to mind from church, "I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety," and it echoed in her mind.
Reluctantly she knew her mother was right. This wasn't about restrictions or limitations; it was about honoring herself and her faith.
It was about recognizing her worth, not based on fleeting trends or superficial judgments, but on the inherent dignity she possessed as a child of God.
It was also about protecting men from temptation and impure thoughts.
She thought about the message she wanted to project to the world, the kind of person she wanted to be. Did she want men ogleing her for the wrong reasons, or did she want to be defined by her character, her kindness, her intelligence?
The answer was clear. With a newfound sense of resolve, she turned to her mother. "You're right, Mom," she said, her voice calmer now, a hint of a smile playing on her lips. "I'll go change. And I'll take this dress back tomorrow for a refund."
Prayer:
Lord, help me to see myself as you see me – beautiful and worthy of love, not because of my outward appearance, but because of the unique and precious person you created me to be.
Guide me to dress modestly, with dignity and grace, reflecting the inner beauty you have placed within me.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
