February 8
Guarded by
Integrity
“Godly people are kept safe by doing what is right. But those who are not faithful are trapped by evil longings.”
Proverbs 11:6 (NIrV)
Marcus and Bethany had been married for seven years. Bethany’s best friend, Serena, had always been part of their lives. Her vibrant personality and confidence lit up every room, and Marcus often found himself noticing her more than he should.
At first, he dismissed his thoughts. “It’s harmless,” he told himself. But over time, Marcus found excuses to be around Serena—offering to help when she needed something fixed or lingering in conversations a little longer than necessary.
A part of him knew it was wrong. He loved Bethany, yet his wandering thoughts made him feel distant and guilty. One evening, Marcus sat in his car after work, scrolling through his phone, when he came across Proverbs 11:6:
"Godly people are kept safe by doing what is right. But those who are not faithful are trapped by evil longings."
The word trapped hit him hard. That was exactly how he felt—trapped in a cycle of guilt and temptation. He realized his thoughts were not only disrespecting his wife but also dishonoring God.
That night, he prayed. “Lord, I’ve let my heart stray. Help me to turn back to what’s right. Give me the strength to love Bethany as You intended and to guard my thoughts with integrity.”
Marcus decided to make changes. He set boundaries with Serena, ensuring their interactions remained appropriate and limited. He poured his energy into rekindling his relationship with Bethany—planning date nights, being more present, and sharing his struggles with her in an honest and vulnerable conversation.
As weeks passed, the weight lifted. Marcus found freedom in doing what was right. His love for Bethany deepened, and he felt God’s peace guarding his heart. He understood that integrity wasn’t just about actions but also about the thoughts and desires he allowed to linger.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that integrity keeps us safe and close to You.
Forgive us when we let our hearts and minds stray into places that dishonor You and those we love.
Help us to guard our thoughts and to live in a way that reflects Your goodness.
Strengthen us to turn away from temptation and to pursue what is right, trusting that You will guide and protect us.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
